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Old 12-26-2003, 08:34 PM
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Originally posted by hottytoddy
I agree with AOCutiePi-if some guy ever gave me a time limit-I would drop him like a bad habit. I will not be given ultimatums. The key word is respect...give the other person enough respect to let them decide when they feel ready. Pretty much, if you have to ask for it, then the relationship is already over (even if she/he gives in and does it).
Speaking of ultimatums, I wonder how many women give MEN ultimatums with respect to marriage -- you know, the old "give me a ring or it's over" thing? I bet those are often the same women who would be pissed off if presented with an ultimatum regarding sex.

Anyway, I don't see the point of waiting. To me, getting into a relationship before having sex is like buying a car without test driving it. What's the point?
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