If I eventually get married, and if I have kids, and if I had a daughter (lotta 'if's lol) then I would LOVE for my daughter to be a Tri Delt. The same would apply, if I had a son, and if my husband was Greek. I would understand if she didn't feel like the fit with her college's Tri Delta chapter. I would not be Greek if we had not set out to form another sorority because we felt we didn't 'fit' with any of the current groups on campus. My roommate's mother is a Delta Zeta, and even though we have DZ on our campus, she still supported my roommate when she pledge Tri Delta. I can only hope I can do the same....IF I have a daughter.
However, Lord help that (hypothetical) child if she goes to my alma matter, and does NOT go Tri Delta.

My madien name is on the charter- she better be a Tri Delt!!! lol