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Originally posted by fingerbang
#1 i wouldnt tell alumni. They wont really do anything that drastic to help realistically. If you are asking them for help with things that really boil down to heart, which is what im getting, they are not gonna be to happy. also what they think is helping wont really help that much. also, this happened to us when we werent that great, and a bro went and talked to the alumni and he became chastised from the chapter. if u do talk to alumni try to find a younger one in his 20's from your own chapter or another one that it the area. i would suggest also if past presidents of your chapter are in the area, kep them involved as advisors or something cause they are still young and have a lot of heart.
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the last thing you want is an alum to step in and do nothing but make your life hell because you ccontacted him. i talked to an alum who is young and a good friend of mine this semester. hw didnt help me in the way i hoped, and there are guys in my house who dont like/trust me anymore....kinda a shitty situation. anyway, everyone here has been giving you good advice. when i get back to sd on sunday hit me up...let mw know if i can help you with anything. i know that the begining of this semester when i would get fed up with the bull shit in my house i would go and party with the guys from IFC exec. it helps to have a social outlet that will help you forget the crap that is stressing you out within your house.