Well, while we are at it, let me add that all org. have a funny chapter and/or member somewhere. DO not let one person influence your perception of the entire org. or family (NPHC). I believe we all have a frat/soror we would like to have a long talk with about the way they present themselves and the org.
I don't think the above described episodes are characteristics of neither org. you mentioned. Please understand there are fellow greek frats and sorors who think to be better than others because of the org. they belong; right or wrong, they are out there and they will wake up when their time is due. When interest comes to me, I keep it at a business level and try to make them feel welcome, considering she can be a potential soror. I also encourage them to look into other orgs. and make sure they are clear about their choice.
I hate to see people recruiting. I think the way you carry yourself and your actions should be enough to make young ladies want to be part of your org.
Hope it helped.
No Limit Soldier,
SIGMA GAMMA RHO SORORITY, INc.
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