I'm not in one now, but I have been in the past. I echo the prior posts, the daily drama will be the same regardless of skin color. I find that socio-economic class makes more of a difference than race.
My dad remarried and married a white woman a few years ago, before that, he and my mom [both Af-Am] had been married for more than 2 decades. The funny thing is now when they go places, my white step mom gets more rilled up at perceived racism than my dad. I think sometimes my stepmom is shocked when they get seated in a section of the restaurant where no one else is sitting.
When the three of us are out together, people think that she's my bio mom [especially in the winter when i loose my color
]. At the end of the day, my dad is happier with my white stepmom than he was with my black mom, so I'm happy. Also, she gives me insight into how white america thinks. She's often my lithmus test.
Ok, so that post kind of rambled, but the point is, date someone who makes you happy, who ever that may be, and whatever they look like.
Good Luck!
