I would have told him no and that I wasn't interested. I would also avoid having long conversations other than hi and goodbye. The reason I say this is temptation. Because this very thing is happening to a friend of mine. Her ex went into the army for 4 years, came back, and did the same thing to her.
Even though she said no the first time, her ex kept asking. A few days had passed, but she kept thinking about it, which meant his words got to her. They started conversating more and more. Soon she felt comfortable enough with him to share the details of her current relationship. She told him all the things her man doesn't or won't do, and then the ex started doing what she wanted or needed. She then started thinking about how she could secretly see her ex, then it evolved to leaving her boyfriend, and based on what she told me, my thinking is all that the guy wants is sex.
So be careful and don't get in too deep like my friend is now.



[This message has been edited by c&c1913 (edited August 17, 2000).]