Rudey, I think I got waht you are talking about as you and I are both some what disjointed in not thinking but typing!
Hoosier, the story you just told was relayed to me By None other Than Erik Conard, one of Your Finest Fraters!
That has always seemed to be the problem with All of us!
The New Kids get pumped up and do not see the fact, Hey, It Cost Money! Until they become fully Initiated Members, they do not Know The True Meaning Of Fraternalism!