Ok watters, I gotta go with what 33 is saying. First, Not all sorority girls are sluts (I know you know this but just pointing it out), Second, Not all Fraternity men are male sluts. And no one is accusing here.
Lets see. . . can we think of a positive nickname for men who have premarital sex? Stud is one, lady's man is another. Can you name more? OK, lets name a positive name for a woman who has premarital sex. HMMMM, can you think of any? Probably not. Why is that? Probably because society believes that it's ok for the boy to spread his legs, but not for a girl because it's "not lady like." It take two to tango buddy! I now A LOT more guys who go out just to get drunk and screw the first thing that walks by (excuse my language) than I do girls. AND, ask any woman how many partners she had had, and ask any man the same age how many partners HE has had. In most cases, the man has a MUCH higher number. The sad part is, yes, women are the ones who get the bad name, so instead of telling us to hold a nickle tightly between our knees, why don't we educate society. Make them aware that women who sleep with multiple partners aren't always sluts, and men who sleep with multiple parnters aren't always studs. My roommate in college was raped by some guys in a fraternity. You know what? She was the one who got the bad name. How does that make sense? That is an extreme case, but come on, you can't address all the women in sororities who sleep with multiple partners without addressing the men. That would be hypocritical.
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