Soror there's something about a DELTA WOMAN.......
When I crossed, my husband, who is now my ex-husband, thought it was a bit too much and talked negatively about me becoming a member and still to this day says "I guess you're doing Delta stuff again."
I have found that people who don't understand the commitment of public service will never understand Delta. I have also found that if you don't have a "greek" spouse or mate it is sometimes hard on a relationship.
You should sit down with your boyfriend and explain to him that this is a lifetime commitment and you should also prioritize church, school, family, delta, etc.
To be a Delta Woman is an HONOR and MANY MANY people know this. I know that for years before I crossed I would look at Deltas like "Wow, what great women they are!" So, soror, the strange looks from others are natural.
Never stop talking about Delta because that's one topic that should continuously pop up no matter who you're around. The conversation will only reaffirm to others your deep commitment and love for what Delta means globally.
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Director #2
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