It is true that many members of the Order are rather tightlipped. However, that is a learned behavior from tradition.
One thing you must remember is that OES women are human first. If they are not very outgoing or friendly, the Order is not going to drastically change that. That sentiment has been expressed over and over on this forum as well.( A Delta is a human being and has good days and bad days also.)As with any group that has a formal process for membership, there are times when you really may not feeling like answering interest questions. I'm sorry that you don't feel comfortable discussing your interest with your family members. Oh and yes, a Mason from your family can sponsor you. In many jurisdictions, it is possible to vouch for a 'worthy' woman without being related to her.
[This message has been edited by Sterling (edited July 24, 2000).]
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