Hey!
I know of a website with OES info. Ironically, I just spoke with the local OES chapter in my area (Bronx, NY). I was told I needed to be sponsored by a member of my family that is already a member. Unfortunately, I have trouble finding family members because they move around too much. I even have Delta's in my family but I have trouble finding them too. :-( Well the website is
www.easternstar.org Well, I hope you find what you are looking for.