this is a really interesting question.
while i was going through my process, i had a line sister that was pregnant. she was not judged in anyway but us (her LS's) because her scholastic achievements and social activities (volunteer work) were the bomb and she was the sweetest person you could ever know. she was also unmarried and many people especially older people might have looked down on her but that never stopped her from getting her bachelors, masters and now she is a candidate for a PH.D.
plus on top of that her daughter is now a legacy and has 35 devastating and beautiful aunts.
