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It sounds like my chapter did candle pass a little differently than the others. Whoever passed the candle asked someone else (sworn to secrecy) to bring the candle to chapter meeting in a bag with a tape (I guess now they'd use a CD). The tape had songs that were special to the couple. After chapter was over, the president would put the tape in the cassette player and start the candle pass- nobody blew it out after one time- but twice was "dropped" (lavaliered) and 3 times was engaged.
I like the idea of the chapter singing better because people would not talk as much. Isn't it strange how different chapters have different traditions? Yet we are all bonded by the same ritual........
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