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Originally posted by Prissfit1908
I try to self-analyze to determine if I'm doing something wrong, but I feel like I am being true to myself. I don't regret anything that I've done since I met this man. But I am so damn tired of wasting my time. And why does this have to happen right before my birthday/Christmas?  Not that there is ever a good time to breakup, but oh my damn... I just feel so hopeless when it comes to my love life. You know how people always say, "Stop looking and love will find you." Well, I stopped looking a lonnnnng time ago, and all that's finding me are idiots and liars.
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Been there...
Done that...
Gotta T-shirt...
-Mr. AKA_Monet
Questions:
Are you all READY to be married?
'Cuz I LUUUVVVEEE me some Mr. AKA_Monet, but sometimes...
He still hangs out with the fellas on Friday, Happy Hour time and I ain't met no friends so that I can hang out too--so I'm sittin' alone at home on a Friday night... Then he told me never to show up where he is hangin' out... Which means, that there are some "thangs" that I might not be prepared to see...
Then EVER SATURDAY, I have chores... He's so dayum anal about it... I must vacuum... I must wash the dishes a certain way...
Then as much as I luvveee me some Mr. AKA_Monet, I am lucky he remembers to put the seat down... That he doesn't spray the bathroom after using it... Chit you don't see when you are dating or even living together...
But, when I was sick 2 weeks ago with the flu... Mr. AKA_Monet was right there, making me Thera Flu, hot tea, miso soup and making sure I was comfy...
He can't take his hands off me...
And last year this time, I prayed to God to make the 2002 Holiday Season, the last one I spent alone for the rest of my life...
Within 5 months of meeting Mr. AKA_Monet, we were married...
And I'm 35 years old!!!
So ladies, don't give up... Even if you havta "cross the street" and date a brotha from anotha... If your expectations are to have a man with "assets", then there ain't a whole lotta bruhs out there with dat... Sometimes, you're lucky, like I was... But, there aren't that many to begin with to give you what you truly desire... So, sometimes, a sistah finds herself either "crossin' the street"... Or on "other side of midnight..." Hey, whateva's cleava... But at least you got sumbody...
And sometimes, you gotta lay down the law from the jump... You automatically set a 3 month waiting period... If a man cain't tell you what y'all about after 3 months--it ain't gonna change beyond that... To save "face"--3 months... No sense in "flingin'" it for 5-6 months... A man can commit to football tickets... He can commit to a golf club... He can sho commit to you within 3 months... I ain't talkin' marriage--I'm talkin' boyfriend/girlfriend within 3 months--skeriousssss... And if he runs skurred, then he may need to go to the "lower stakes" table...
'Cuz ladies, you are wonderful, you are blessed and you got it goin' on, you are sexy, vibrant and smart... Your worth every effort... You are all goddesses on your own sanctuary. You deserve bliss (in a Tantric sort of way)... You are a child of God...
So let's start acting like it...