[astroAPhi]

I like to date skinny blonde guys. So I must be racist too because blacks, Asians, etc can't be blonde, right? And then I'm discriminating against the fat man. What a bigoted jerk I am.

Your friend is weird. There is nothing wrong with who you date. I think she should be worrying more about whether or not they're abusing you than the color of their skin.

And variety isn't all it's cracked up to be. I don't need to date a crack dealer to know what I want from a man. I know I don't want any of that.