I would like to know the reasons why, but I would like them straight up, not a break up out of no where.
This is because, while it may hurt in the short run, I look at it as being beneficial in the long run. Who knows? That information may be the same thing that is causing problems or break ups for me in other relationships. If i know what's wrong, I can work on correcting it. Then it wont be a problem for the next relationship. My psychologist has agreed with this as well and in recent months encouraged me to find this out from ex's. Those that I have talked to, have told me similar things. So I look at it as beneficial that I now know that information and I'm now working on those issues, so they wont be an issue anymore.
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