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I was once the same way, I never knew how to answer the girls when they asked what was wrong with them. I didnt know what the problem was, I just didnt like them as much as I once did. Then one day I realized we, as men, use girls for sex. When we get tired of them and can't put up with their crap anymore....we dump them, or vice vera. Thats why I don't understand why in the world people get married at young ages. The way I see it, by the time a guys in his mid/late 20s he's already got most of his sex craze out of his system and doesnt feel like going around banging every chick he can. That said, by the time a guy does decide to take that marriage step.....he's no longer using girls for sex anymore. I think the situation you mentioned in number 2 will fade with maturity. Its called not stringing a girl along if your feeelings have changed. As soon as you reckonize your feelings have changed you need to end things with the chick. You don't need to give them any reason in particular. You can just tell them you dont feel the same anymore. Thats the good thing about dating....you can wake up one morning and leave the girl and there's nothing wrong with it.
- You forgot the pattern of when someone cheats, its pretty common.
Craig
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