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Size/looks does play a role in selection... however let's not forget that it is hard for a chapter to cut girls. It's not like ALL sisters sit around after parties making their lists like "Oh that girl was wearing pants that I KNOW I saw in Walmart last week I can't believe she wears Walmart clothes... or... oh yeah Suzy Smith, she was kinda chubby the boys won't like her" (at least I should hope not)
It is ALMOST always a tough decision on who to cut and we do have to see these women around who didnt' get bids. I know at least for me (becuase this just happened to me) When I'm in Target, wearing letters no less, and the girl at the camera counter turns around to help me, and it's a girl who just came to COB events and ended up not getting a bid... I feel kinda akward and bad... no matter the reason why we ended up not extending this woman a bid.
I guess what I'm trying to say is that even though people may make cuts for shallow reasons sometimes.... it's usually NEVER done in a spirit of meanness (at least I should hope not, and I know my chapter always remains very respectful when we are discussing potential sisters.
Last edited by Glitter650; 12-13-2003 at 07:31 PM.
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