[mattpike]

we have date parties that are alcohol free every once in a while. like trust your brother, what you do is everyone picks a name but no one knows who the other one got, then you have to find a date for the persons name who you drew. the key is that you have to trust that your brother got you someone that you would like. most of the time you try to get them people who they never met so that they have a good time meeting someone new. then you get handcuffed to your date for the evening. we go to a nice restaurant, and then go to celebration station. its a blast.
or try boardgames, when we have exchanges with sororities we play stuff like battle of the sexes and stuff. sounds dumb but guys are so competitive that everyone ends up getting really into it and has a blast.
basketball tournaments
volleyball tournaments.
pool tournaments.
any athletic games.
bar b que