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Originally posted by chideltjen
it's always a Jen's fault...  
anyhoo... this is what i don't understand. When a girl is obviously way into a guy that just isn't feeling it or just despises the girl, why do guys decide this is the time to spare their feelings instead of just being the assh*le they should be? I have a friend at work going thru a similar situation as you Craig. And I tell him to just be brutally honest and say "hey i don't like you, so leave me alone." but he doesn't want to be a dickhead. That frustrates me when a guy just can't be up front with you.
Right now you are giving this neighbor chick an open door. (no pun intended.) you have tried being nice and explained that you have a gf but she isn't getting it. so... blow her off. she'll get over it. life will go on and you would have saved your relationship with your gf and your neighbor can just be, well, your neighbor.
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But it seems to me that Cash likes her...just a little.
He said in early posts that they have so many things in common.
I think the issue here is the girl. She knows he has a girlfriend and she still doesn't care. Like others have said, it's the thrill of the chase, the fact that he has a girlfriend makes her want him more.
My feeling about this girl is she's going to do everything to get him to cheat, but once he has, she'll dump him like a ton of bricks.
Cash, she's nothing but trouble. You may think she's a cool girl, but she's after one thing. You said yourself you don't want to shoot yourself in the foot.
But one day, you're girlfriend will be over and the chickie next door will come by with a plate of cookies and I'm think your girlfriend will be less than thrilled and that's when the gun goes off.
The way I see it is if you really care for your girlfriend you'll back off because neighbour girl certainly won't.