This link to an old thread kind of goes with this one . . . and also goes with lovelivy's analysis of a nice guy:
http://greekchat.com/gcforums/showth...ethically+nice
Especially look where I talk about ethically nice guys lol:
Actually here is the quote:
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Originally posted by James
There are also two basic kinds of nice guys:
1. "That guy" the nice guy cause he is secretly afraid of not being nice. ITs his strategy for being liked. This is the most common type of nice guy, and the one that gets dumped on, and the one the girls described as annoying.
2. The "ethically nice" guy. This is the most rare. He does The Right Thing because its the right thing. Not because he is afraid you won't like him or he is overly worried what you think. He'll treat you like a princess and at the same time will not put up with your shit.
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