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Good post James.
Also please note that being a nice guy does not mean being a wimp. Nor does it entail repeatedly informing everyone around you how nice you are.
Nice men can have backbones. Nice men can flirt. Nice men can EVEN be good in bed! Nice just means well-mannered and genuinely considerate of the people around you. That doesn't mean not arguing with them or giving in whenever someone disagrees, it just means being able to listen.
And most of the men I have known in my life who like to discuss how incredibly "nice" they are are no such thing. They are WHINERS who are searching for a reason why girls don't DATE them!
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It may be said with rough accuracy that there are three stages in the life of a strong people. First, it is a small power, and fights small powers. Then it is a great power, and fights great powers. Then it is a great power, and fights small powers, but pretends that they are great powers, in order to rekindle the ashes of its ancient emotion and vanity.-- G.K. Chesterton
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