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Bruh, I understand where you're coming from on the whole "cute" issue. I don't get upset, but I'm like "damn"....esp. when I see a man who is confused about his sexual identity. I mean, that is what the main concern is here! Can a man experience these things and maintain his 'manhood?" Now, I was up in Atlanta..what I saw up there was a different story - and I won't even go there - LOL!
But I have a homeboy who is a single father, and has raised two teenage girls...and he's doing a damn good job by himself b/c of the exposure he had to "different" things growing up. He does their hair...takes them shopping and even makes suggestions on their outfits. Hell, he didn't even miss a beat when they started their "womanhood"...he knew what to do and jumped right in. I know, the argument here will be, "well, he has to b/c he's a single father." But how many people are willing to step outside of their BOXED-IN-MINDS and do what it takes to get the job done!
LOL - and no, there is nothing soft about the dude b/c we compete in some of the same body building shows...and the way this m/f trains, kicks my ass at times!
My point is, there is a fine line here...and we have to be careful about how we associate or assign certain attributes according to gender. I mean, what about jobs one would consider to be "gender appropriate"? Cuz, I know a young lady who works for UPS...and the way her lil' toned azz be handlin' dem boxes....MAN, THAT S*** TURNS ME THE HELL ON - LOL!
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Last edited by acedawg00-02; 12-10-2003 at 10:36 AM.
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