being single at christmas sucks but tis' nto so bad. Keep yourself occupied and surrounded by family and friends.......or if you get lonely do what i do sometimes, bake xmas cookies and kentucky bourbon chocolate brownies for the neighbors
or call up friends that you havent talked to in a while.......read a book, start a journal, learn a craft, etc

If you are occupied and thinkign of other things, then you dont think about being lonely and manless. I'm finding that it's working rather well for me this year