Maybe this makes me sound terrible, but I love to see my black brothas with a black woman, and I admit that it disappoints me when they aren't. I am by no means a racist, but I just like to see black families-- black mommies and black daddies with black sons and black daughters. If he loves her for HER and not because she isn't black, then mo' power. But, if he's one of those Dennis Rodman, Billy Blanks, Wesley Snipes, Karl Malone, Cuba Gooding types-- who don't like black women because someone dissed them back in high school-- then I can't help but be a bit ticked. If it's really and truly non-superficial, unconditional love, then God Bless Them.
And, I agree with Eclipse that they are both really young! I'm 24 and marriage is as far from my mind as Pluto is from the Sun! I hope she has some goals in life. Personally, my mom would never let me marry at 18, even if it were to someone as rich as Kobe. I'd rather make my own 40K a year doing my own thang, than to spend some else's money doing nothing-- but that's just me (a self-sufficient, independant, strong black sista). Okay, there I go letting my own pre-conceived notions surface. Sorry if I'm offending anyone-- just rolling off my feelings!
Why should I care anyway? KEVIN GARNETT is still single!
Love you all!
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Pi Kappa
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QUINTESSENCE
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