well as someone who has once questioned thier relationship and done stupid stuff in the past let me offer my thoughts.. this is just speaking from my experience.. each person is different and its hard to know by this info..
have you thought about why you would question whether to do this or not?? you say that you have a great girlfriend and you want to be with her.. then you really shouldnt have doubts in your mind.. maybe its more of an issue with yourself than your neighbor.. who knows though..
if you move past this with your neighbor then who will it be next?? ya get what i am trying to say here.. i def had this issue.. i was with the perfect guy and kept questioning things when i would meet other great guys.. until i finally was able to sort through my own issues i couldnt really be fair to my boyfriend.. it caused me to lose him.. now i am trying to work things out..
i just hope that if she is so great that you can figure things out.. its rough..
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