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Something I discovered through my fascination with psychology, and dealing with people in general: when someone holds something bad in, it keeps the good things from entering their life. Patti LaBelle called it Blocking your Blessing. For a long time, I was very depressed. Only after I prayed for it to be released, and started talking to someone, did my blessings come.
So Ideal, and everyone else, please keep expressing your hurts, doubts, fears, etc. I agree that we (AA, specifically, and women too) tend to keep things internal b/c we dont want people all up in the koolaid, so to speak. That is simply not healthy.
(Besides, if ya can't share it on GC, where CAN you share it? :P)
(hugs)
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Easy. You root against Duke, for that program and its head coach are -
and we don't think we're in any way exaggerating here - the epitome of all that is evil.
--Seth Emerson, The Albany Herald
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