What you want to look for is overall thoughtfulness and not just to you, but to others as well so then you know it's not just "impressing a date" behavior.
I've never judged someone on opening my car door, but if it's raining or snowing and he unlocks his door, gets in, starts the car and you have to knock on the window to get his attention to unlock YOUR door while you're standing out there, we've got a problem (been there!).
But, ladies should keep in mind that courtesy should go both ways. If a man opens my door and lets me in, I always try to open his door from inside the car.
I can't see ever waiting inside the car for him to come around and open it for me, unless the inside handle is broken or something.
Dee
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