Yup... your "nice" guys are the ones that don't play/understand the dating game. Many times they are horrible at flirting and are just generally bad at letting a girl know that they like 'em. So they get to be the yutz that hears about all her woman problems. They get to hear about all her a--hole guys that she dates, etc... It's generally because of a lack of self-confidence or understanding of the opposite sex. Both qualities make them perfect guy friends, right?