Jewell (I like calling you that, I hope you don't mind!
) -
Every school/chapter does the Candlelight differently, and for different times. We passed the candle around once for sisterhood, twice for being lavaliered, three times for being pinned, four times for getting engaged, and five times for getting married.
But we also had a Sisterhood Circle without a Candlelight, and that's when things such as Law School, etc would be brought up & celebrated!
edited for spelling