Man, I go to class for a few hours and see what happens?
Caitie, you've gotten excellent advice. I know you said you have 3.5 years left in college, which I take that to mean that you're a freshman. This is one of many inherently adult decisions you'll have to make. If you're still unsure about whether or not to stay over at the fraternity, it can't hurt to wait a few weeks--until you get to know the guys a little more and befriend some Greek women around campus to find out how they feel about shacking in regards to standards issues. I know my campus was super-liberal and it wouldn't have made a big deal (I am living proof!), in fact it may have helped during recruitment, especially if sisters were doing the same thing. I'd just say don't do it before you're ready--if that's six weeks, six hours, or six years. I spent the night w/ Mr Munch (who's GDI, by the way) the first night we were together--because that's when I was ready. Please don't let anyone make you feel guilty (AHEM!) about making a decision that YOU have to make alone.
M'03 (former frat shacker, current alum)
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