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Wow....
This thread started out really well, with some great advice.
I must say to the senior members and moderators of GC, I dont think your morals are lacking at all. I think ya'll gave great advice to a girl who asked a simple question. I also believe you can spend the night with a guy and it not mean anything. My best friend is a guy, and he would do anything for me. We watch movies on my bed together (oh no!)..and we would never do anything physical together. On a side note, before the LSU girl attacks me for watching movies and him falling asleep on my bed with me..I will say this: Im a virgin who does not believe in premarital sex. Ive actually taken a vow before God in the Catholic Church for it. So, yes, you can be in the same bed with a guy and not do anything physical.
On another point, I am from a Southern school, in one of the most Southern states of all, Texas. (I went out with some ATO's and he told me he looks at the texas flag and thinks...damn straight. Haha...weirdo texans). We do have a rule in my Pi Phi chapter that no one is allowed to go on the 2nd floor of a fraternity house..even if you are just going to get something. They will give you a standards call, and I have seen it done before. Now..my friends down at A&M have slowly been changing the rules...and im glad that maybe we are outgrowing that Southern conformity that LSU girl seems to think we need to do.
On another side note....hehe. Junior League..i dont think thats around in Texas as much anymore. They have Cotillion and National Chairty League to pick up the slack for not having one.
And yes..this is 2003, not 1953, where on TV you had to have seperate beds because they did not want anything to imply they were having sex! *The kid just kinda popped out on I love Lucy I guess...* but i mean, really now.
I would like to reiterate that the girl asked what the brothers would feel..and never implied she was going to have sex. When did this become a moral issue anyway?
*I would advise you,amazinglagirl, as a junior member of GC not to attack a moderator...for when you attack one of the long-standing GC members, your not going to get alot of slack.*
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