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Originally posted by amazinglagirl
Sorry if I come off hostile....I'm just really passionate that somebody ought to give Catie some WISE advice instead of platitudes and dismissive permission to whore herself (or at least her reputation) out to this guy and the mind's of the guys in his collective fraternity! This is something she could potentially regret for years to come, and it's like BAD ADVICE DAY on Greek chat or something...
CATIE BE STRONG...if you decide to sleep with this guy, at least don't do it in the FRAT house!!!
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You have a right to your opinion and nobody is disputing that.
But, don't attack the advice of others and claim it isn't "wise" simply because it doesn't agree with your moral standards, people live by different morals and standards. Don't discount those other opinions simply because you don't agree with them. Six weeks could be dating, simply because you have known people longer than that doesn't make you the ultimate power in saying so. Your life and experiences don't reflect those of others and certainly not those on this board.
There has been a lot of good advice on this thread and it has been "wise" as well. It is 2003 and times have changed quite a bit.
And yes, a man and a woman can share a bed without getting sexual. And no sex isn't going to be the only thing talked about, people will probably sleep believe it or not. I've spent many a night with a female in my bed without doing anything but that's my life and I'm not pushing that on anyone.
Again, you are entitled to your opinions and they are respected as long as you respect the opinions of others and quit discounting them as "unwise" because this holier-than-thou attitude doesn't work.
Now play nice kiddos, don't make me own you.