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Originally posted by amazinglagirl
Sorry if I come off hostile....I'm just really passionate that somebody ought to give Catie some WISE advice instead of platitudes and dismissive permission to whore herself (or at least her reputation) out to this guy and the mind's of the guys in his collective fraternity! This is something she could potentially regret for years to come, and it's like BAD ADVICE DAY on Greek chat or something...
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I don't think any advice given has been bad. Ultimately, this is her decision, and if she's going to make a decision solely based on what we think, well then she's got deeper problems. And by the way, having sex with your boyfriend is not whorish! It's whorish to sleep with a guy in a fraternity house after knowing him a night or something, but if this is her boyfriend, she is not a whore! Geez.
Listen to your heart, Catie. No one else really knows what is best for you but you. Sleeping with your boyfriend in his fraternity house is nothing to be ashamed about. I basically lived at my ex boyfriend's house for 6 months, and I had a great time getting to know the guys in his house. They respected me, and I'm still friends with many of them to this day. Do what you feel is right. As long as you are true to yourself, you'll never regret it.