NEVER give up hope. I am a walking example........
The Sigma Chi I told you about IM'd me tonight. He's up working at Crystal Mt and quite far from me for the season (to shorten the story). He was wanting what most men who've done nothing but work for a few weeks want. He commented that it was too bad I didn't live closer and here's how the conversation went:
Me: well I'd probably invite you over
Him: probably?
Me: I wouldn't want you to accuse me of making a whiny grab for attention
Him: Why would I accuse you of that?
Me: Well..........
Me: You already accused me of it once
Him: Oh
Me: Yep, I guess you don't remember
Him: no
Me: yah, our last conversation wasn't a pleasant thing.
But I told him it was no longer a big deal (do I need him?) and I think things are cool now. I think he lost power though because he disappeared from online pretty suddenly.
So see? You never know might happen when a MAN is involved. My CATS are less troublesome...........