Only three??? Let's see... I'm married now, but my dealbreakers were:
Drug use (This includes smoking (unless he's willing to make a serious effort at quitting) and anything more than moderate drinking. It does not include medicine if taken as directed.)
Physical or emotional abuse
Cheating or otherwise misrepresenting his sexual history and current situation (I won't be the girl on the side!)
I wouldn't care so much about whether he's employed as long as he has good job prospects. If he's well educated and just got laid off - eh, it's the economy. If he's still in college, that's fine.
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