When you don't make the football team you think your football skills are not good enough. When you don't make the school paper you think your journalism needs work. When you go to a sorority that during rush promotes fun and friendship and involvement, and you like them and think you are fun and friendly and then get cut heavily, of course that really stinks. And of course you want to know WHY? And often, unlike throwing a ball or writing an article, you don't know what to DO to fix what went wrong. I can see the pain in all of it. when it works out it is fantasitc and when it doesn't it just plain hurts.
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