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The fact that you are asking the question and have stated that you have actually heard comments made about other women that have stayed overnight kind of tells me that you already know the answer to your question...
Would it give people a reason to talk? Sure it would. Does the benefit out weigh the costs? Only you can really answer that question.
I hope the guys here don't kill me for saying this but, my bigger concern would be for your safety. I would never encourage a woman to be alone in the bedrooms of a fraternity house. More than likely, the fraternity men of this house are great and you would be safer there than anywhere BUT you've only known this guy for a month or so, how well do you know the other men that live in the house. Are you putting yourself in a situation where something bad could happen to you?
Good luck in your decision.
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