Psychologically, I can see it happening. The husbands feel survivor's guilt and part of the way to deal with it is to make sure the widow does not suffer as much. The widow, in turn, sees a replacement for her husband. I am not a psychologist, but I would bet that after more time they will both come to realize it was not love but emotional comfort.
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