I'm not a brother, but I'm a member of Gamma Sigma Sigma Service Sorority (your sister historically).
I personally think that women in the frat isn't something to get upset about. The fraternity is co-educational, that means men and women can join. Unfortunately there are some chapters and some brothers individually that do not agree with women joining.
I say, if you feel comfortable being in APO, then don't worry about what others think...this is what you wanted to join, and if you're doing something positive then that is what's more important. I'm sure that APO is so much bigger than the opinion of a few.
Sisterly,
gamma_girl
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