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i have answered this questions before so i just copied it from the last time i answered it:
"I am from the same campus as buttonz. We don't have a big brother groups . What we do is if you're close or good friends with a greek guy (just friends, no romantic inclinations), if he pledged before you you can ask him to be your big brother, if he pledged after you can ask him to be your little brother. The guy can also ask a girl to be their big or little sister. Its not an official thing or anything and if you're one sorority it doesn't mean your big brother has to be in a particular fraternity (my big is in zbt, but I have sisters wth bigs in AEPi and SAMmy) and its not like you don't chose each other. Its just something cute we do on campus."
As for jeopardizing our status as a single sex organization it isn't anything like that. My big bro/lil bro isn't a big bro/lil bro for all of my chapter, just for me. The chapter doesn't participate in selection, he doesn't hold any special status in my sorority eyes and we don't have have big brother/little brother functions. It just a cute label for a good friend of the opposite sex who is also in the Greek system.
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