We do not have Big Brothers or anything like that...the first I'd heard of it was on this board, actually. However, my chapter does have a "sweetheart" that changes from year to year...he's called our "Lad of the Lamp." If you want to be the Lad of the Lamp, you have to win our annual Mr. UK Pageant...but hey, you get your picture on our composite, so that should be motivation enough.