No truer words were spoken than by the previous posts.
When I started my Local which affiliated with LXA, that was the spoken word. "No Hazing". But it has come to the point where a Chapter cannot hold mandatory study times for New Associates.
While I for one totally disagree with this for several reasons:
1. You must have Your Grades to be Initiated
2. Have Your Grades to Stay Active.
3. Have Your grades to go for the Highest GPA on Campus for Your Organization.
4. Last but not least, have Your Grades to Graduate.
It is not my Call, but LXA Internationals Call.
I will follow what They say as I am a Brother of LXA.
As far as the other things,

, this is uncalled for and I agree, contact the National Hdq. and tell them why you quit.
I am sure they would be very unhappy with any situation like this.! I am sure that they would send ELCs down to work with them and get this straighted our!
I know there have been Situations where a Chapter of LXA has done some of this and there is hell to pay!
Unless they get it together, they will not be there long!
I would take a look around again, there are alot of Great Fraternitys out there with a lot of Great Members.
You are so right, being in member of a Greek Organization can mean so much! Maybe not just the Magic 4/5 years of College, but for Life!
As you read through the threads, look to see how many have Alum after their Sig.
I have been doing with mine for 38 years!