I have two wonderful friends who are Chi Omegas and between the three of us we run the gamut. I am a member of an alumna chapter (well, a DZ alumna chapter of course
) and stay as involved as I can. My one friend would like to be more involved but can't fit it in her schedule. My other friend enjoyed her time in college but doesn't care to be involved above and beyond reading her quarterly magazine (I am not shy about telling her that she's crazy and reminding her of all the girls we knew in college who would have sold body parts to be Chi-O's!)
Who's right and who's wrong? I don't think any of us are. I think everyone has his or her own idea of what being an alumnus is.
One thing, though, it annoys me when people intimate that I *shouldn't* still be involved in my sorority. It's my time and I'll spend it my way