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I agree...
Not dating this girl simply because your ex is in the same sorority is ridiculous. If there is a problem, it is not your concern. You were courteous enough to let her know of the possiblity...so now she knows and will not be blindsided by you unexpectedly showing up at a sorority event on the arm of one of her sisters. NOW, she knows you are interested in her, probably knows bX is intersted in you too...and it is up to her to choose to handle it in a mature way.
Just because you are greek doesn't mean you don't live in the real world! And if you REALLY like this girl and it is worth it to risk it to date her...then do so. If you would rather spare aX's feelings, then you probably don't really like bX all that much to begin with...
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