I think it is very typical to not be involved as an alum in the NPC sororities right after college. As someone mentioned you are on your way with a job, relationships, etc. And one key factor--I was never called then! Let this be a little nudge to alum groups..call that list!! But then I moved and had a baby. I became very involved for about 12 yrs, went to convention, pres of the alum ass'n, much more. I loved it, I made some dear friends. Now that my kids are grown I am not as active in the organization. But I get together every year with 5 other DG's I went to school with, these are my oldest friends. We were not the shining stars in college, we were often at odds with the rules (things were changing at Texas colleges in the early 70;s). But the meaning of sisterhood is much stronger to me now than it was then. Sort of like you love your mate (hopefully) in a much deeper way 20 yrs later. Now watching my daughter go through new membership is very satisfying. If that is "never giving it up", oh well, sure is fun! And I love knowing what she is going through, it makes sense!
Asia, there is very active involvement in many NPC groups. It is not as publicly visible perhaps, but there. I have participated in numerous rushes, and been an adviser in many capacities. Alum support is key to a successful chapter in any group.
Susan
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