When I was in college, I dated a Pike for a few months. Well, they are a relatively new chapter, and when I broke up with him, word got around that I was off-limits to the rest of the guys (hurt one, hurt us all sort of thing). I still hung out with them, but they and I both knew that no relationships were going to happen.

I guess that didn't really work, as I'm marrying one of their chapter founders He was out of school by the time this happened, though, so I guess that doesn't count

We had the "ask first" rule in our sorority... if a sister wanted to date an ex of another sister, she had to ask her if it would be okay. For the most part it worked quite well.... except for one situation where a girl said "sure" when she really meant "I'll hate you for life", and major drama ensued. So if you have something like this... please, please follow it truthfully. Saying yes when you really mean no is just going to hurt Everyone!