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Oh MAN this makes me glad that my boyfriend and I were together before we were greek!
But in all honesty, I would feel wierd dating one of his brothers because 1. I am their sweetheart, and 2. well, since I'm their sweetheart I just don't see them in a romantic relationship aspect.
If he dated one of my sisters, I might kill them. Ha Ha!
What you really have to figure out is how important all this is to all the parties involved. I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years. If we were to date someone in our respective organizations it would be rough because of all the time we were together -- our whole college careers.
As an example though, one of his brothers was with his girlfriend for like 5 years and then they broke up and she went running to his BIG BROTHER. It caused havoc in the frat and basically the guy that got the girl was shunned by most of the fraternity. It was a sticky icky situation for me and other parties involved, especially because I was close with both sides. If possible, avoid this at all costs -- and if you decide to go through with it -- DON'T do it behind eachother's backs. It will not end well.
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