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You are allowing him to call the shots. If you are going to move on, anything he wants, feels or believes is irrelevant.
Another thing, lets assume he is hopelessly into you. He isn't it showing it in a way that you can relate to very well. Other boys call and send flowers, this guy blows you off forever.
Assumine he is just like this. Is this how you would want someone to show he cared?
If not, then block his name from your message lists, call block his number and move the hell on
If so, expect to suffer . . . a lot.
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Originally posted by Lady Pi Phi
Ok,
same issue...
The idiot boy ignores me for 3 weeks after standing me up. I didn't make an effort to get in touch with him either because I want this insanity to end and just move on with life.
So I check my IQ this morning and there are 50 messages from him asking me if I'm there. Yesterday afternoon his final messgage to was, and I quote "guess u dont want to talk
thats fine i understand
bye".
My brother got pissed off at him too and messaged him back for me saying I was at work (I left my ICQ on, but in away mode)
So I message him back saying I have been busy and he hasn't been online (he's been on maybe a total of 5 times briefly in the past 3 weeks).
I know I shouldn't have done that, but I was so mad that he had the nerve to lay this guilt trip on me.
So, tonight I get home after working over time and I have another 5 messages from him asking me where I am. EXCUSE ME!! I was at work, I have things to do. I can't sit here waiting for you to talk to me.
I guess after my rant, my question is what the hell is his problem. I haven't seen him in months (so he's not getting any action from me) and HE stood me up when I was supposed to see him 3 weeks ago for the weekend and HE was the one who stopped talking to me. I just figured he lost his interest, so why is he laying this crap on me now?
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