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Thanks for the advice. Well here is what I thought. I thought about giving it a couple days and waiting till thanksgiving on thursday to call him.. His father passed away 2 years ago and to this day the holidays are really hard for him. So I thought I would call him and tell him happy thanksgiving and see how he was just so he knew that I was thinking about him and that I did remember that he said this was a hard time for him and then I thought about asking him maybe if he wanted to go to lunch on Saturday.
You don't think that is to much to soon. It's more him I am worried about I am afraid if I push the situation (like asking to see him) then I may be doing more harm than good.
And I also sent him a letter which he should get by the time he gets home that is another reason I am not sure I should ask to see him.. The letter doesn't say much I didn't beg to be with him I just told him that I realized arguing with him to keep him on the phone longer was really immature and I was willing to try and fix that because I didn't want to lose him over this. And I told him how much he means to me and some of the little things I miss.
Thanks for the help. Anything helps at this point. I am soo lost on what to do. I feel like if I don't try then I am going to lose one of the best things I have had in my life and if I do try I might make things worse.
Sorry this is so long. I have a lot on my mind
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